Newly widowed parents facing heightened financial pressures, following Government’s bereavement benefit cuts

New research reveals true financial and emotional impact on surviving parents and children

  • 75% of newly widowed parents worse off from 6th April with new Bereavement Support Payments
  • 67% of widowed parents say their employment status was affected when their partner died 
  • 7 in 10 newly widowed parents not financially stable after 18 months
  • New taskforce of leading organisations and individuals launched to seek bereavement support solutions for next generation

6th April 2017: At the stroke of midnight, the Government implemented significant changes to bereavement benefits received by UK families – changes which will mean 75% of all families with children are likely to be worse off financially. The cuts to benefits come into effect as new research reveals that two thirds of widowed parents are not financially prepared for bereavement, with around one in six widowed parents admitting that they had been forced to re-locate or move home as a result of their partner’s death.

Over 91% of newly widowed parents will be supported for a shorter time under the new benefits, even though new research involving members of the charity WAY Widowed & Young, supported by, shows that widowed parents already faced very real financial difficulties under the previous system.

Three quarters (75%) of widowed parents who responded to the survey admitted that bereavement had “far more financial costs associated with it” than they expected. Over seven in 10 (72%) also agreed that bereavement had a “serious or negative financial impact” on them and their family.

Under the new scheme, financial support for families who suffer the death of a parent will now receive financial support from the Government for just 18 months, as opposed to up to 20 years under the previous policy. However, once up and running, approximately £100m a year stands to be saved by the Government.

Georgia Elms, chairman of WAY Widowed & Young, says:

18 months is just not long enough. It feels like a kick in the teeth from the Government and just shows that the people who have developed this new bereavement support payment are not considering the long-term needs of the families impacted by a loss.

 “What’s more, the latest bereavement support changes have been positioned by the Government as a move to ‘modernise’ an outdated system, yet unmarried couples with children won’t be entitled to the new benefits.”

Worryingly, cuts have been made in spite of the fact that over six in 10 of the widowed parents polled who received the WPA (Widowed Parent’s Allowance) stated that the contribution of the allowance was ‘very significant’ to their family income.

The significance of the WPA is unsurprising, particularly with so many widowed parents having to change their employment status as a result of their bereavement. In fact, nearly half (49%) of the widowed parents who responded to the survey said they had to reduce their working hours or leave their jobs following their bereavement. Over a quarter (26%) of this group estimated that they forfeited more than 60% of their salary as a result.

Alison Penny, Coordinator of the Childhood Bereavement Network, explains:

The emotional and financial impact of a death in the family doesn’t go away after a matter of months. We know that children’s grief often takes a while to emerge, so it could be two or three years down the line that parents are really needing to reduce their working hours, find additional support, and to be there to support their children’s needs.”

In response to the changes to bereavement benefits and in the absence of longer-term bereavement support from the Government, a group of individuals who have had first-hand experience of bereavement and thought leaders from a number of charity organisations, have been brought together to form a new task force to help those affected by widowhood and bereavement.

The collective has gathered with an ambition to generate ideas and recommendations that can inform the development of a next generation bereavement strategy, focussing on how the nation could better support bereaved parents, partners, and children both financially and emotionally.

Current task force members include:

  • Georgia Elms, Chairman WAY Widowed & Young
  • Alison Penny, Coordinator, Childhood Bereavement Network
  • Jeff Brazier, author of The Grief Survival Guide 
  • Ben Brooks-Dutton, author of It’s Not Raining, Daddy, It’s Happy and Life as a Widower blogger
  • Debbie Kerslake, Chief Executive, Cruse Bereavement Care
  • Dr Shelley Gilbert MBE, Founder, Grief Encounter
  • Fergus Crow, Chief Executive, Winston’s Wish

Simon McCulloch, Director at, says: 

“Helping families to protect their financial future and the ones they love is a key part of our business, so when we heard about the changes to bereavement benefits for UK parents, we couldn’t just sit by and do nothing, especially when over two thirds of widowed parents readily admit that they weren’t financially prepared for their bereavement. 

“We are incredibly proud to be supporting these inspirational individuals and organisations on their mission to find solutions which could provide much-needed support for families going through the toughest time of their lives.”

The research also revealed that the financial implications resulting from the impact of bereavement extend far beyond the workplace. Over four in 10 (42%) of the parents polled stated that they had to pay for additional childcare as a result, whilst two thirds (66%) of all widowed partners said that they have undergone counselling since suffering a bereavement.

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Additional spokesperson comment

Ben Brooks-Dutton, author of It’s Not Raining, Daddy, It’s Happy and Life as a Widower blogger 

“I think the government really missed a trick with this new legislation. They’ve made massive cuts to the amount of money that widowed parents now receive, however what they could have done with some of those funds is reinvest it to help support bereaved children and widowed parents emotionally in the long term. This would have fit perfectly with the current mental health agenda.”


Jeff Brazier, TV Personality and author of The Grief Survival Guide 

“If I look back to when it was 18 months after the boys lost their mum, that was when they were ultimately right in the eye of the storm. They really did not know where to put themselves and I remember feeling particularly helpless. That was the time when I needed support the most – whether it was from my friends, from support groups, or whether it be financial benefits from the government.”


Debbie Kerslake, Chief Executive, Cruse Bereavement Care

Many bereaved people tell us that the second year after a death can be even harder than the first, because the shock and the numbness has worn off and the reality that this is what life is going to be like without the person you loved really starts to hit home. This is incredibly painful. It is vital that widowed parents receive the support they need to deal with the intense emotional challenges they and their children face immediately after a death and in the years ahead.”


Additional research findings from Widowed and Young (WAY)

  • 71% of the parents polled did not feel financially secure after 18 months
  • 67% of parents said their employment status was affected
  • Over a third (36%) had to decrease their working hours or go part time
  • 13% had to leave their jobs their jobs completely
  • 75% of widowed parents agreed that “bereavement had far more financial costs associated with it than I expected”
  • 72% agreed that “losing my partner has had a serious/negative financial impact on me and my family”
  • Two thirds (66%) of widowed parents were not financially prepared for their bereavement
  • 42% of widowed parents had to pay for additional childcare costs
  • 17% (equating to around 1 in 6) of widowed parents had to re-locate or move house as a result of their bereavement

 Key facts about Government changes to bereavement benefits 

  • In March, the House of Commons approved the Bereavement Support Payment Regulations 2017 by 292 votes to 236
  • Bereavement Payment and Widowed Parent’s Allowance – the safety net that parents get thanks to the National Insurance contributions their husband or wife made – is being replaced
  • This has been replaced by a new Bereavement Support Payment, effective from 6 April 2017:
    • For those with children, the Bereavement Support Payment is a tax-free lump sum of £3,500, followed by a monthly tax-free payment of £350 for 18 months
    • For those without children, the Bereavement Support Payment is a tax-free lump sum of £2,500 and then a monthly tax-free payment of £100 for 18 months