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We are actively campaigning to improve provision for bereaved families around three key areas: unmarried cohabiting partners and bereavement benefits, changes to bereavement benefits from April 2017  and the rising costs of funerals and funeral poverty.

CAMPAIGN WIN Bereavement benefits and cohabiting couples

From 9 February 2023, families have been able claim bereavement benefits if the parents were living together but not married when one of them died. Previously they were denied these benefits: we have been campaigning against this injustice for the last decade.

The courts have ruled that denying Bereavement Support Payment (and its predecessor Widowed Parent's Allowance) to cohabiting families is incompatible with parents and children's human rights. After a long delay, the Government has now extended the eligibility criteria. Read more about the background and what this means for parents here.

Changes to bereavement benefits from April 2017

In April 2017, the government replaced Bereavement Payment and Widowed Parent's Allowance with the new Bereavement Support Payment (BSP). We remain concerned about the impact of these changes on families. 

We estimate these changes mean that 91% of newly widowed parents are supported for a shorter time than they would have been under the old scheme, and 75% are worse off than they would have been. A minority of widowed parents are better off than they would have been under the old scheme, as BSP isn't be taken into account for calculating entitlement to means-tested benefits.

We've been leading a coalition of organisations concerned about these changes. Read our briefing.

For parents who are terminally ill and worried about the future of their family, it is important to make sure they are claiming all the benefits they are currently entitled to. There is a good guide here.   

The Plan If website has more suggestions for parents of things they might want to put in place in case they die before their children grow up.

Funeral poverty

Funeral costs are rising faster than inflation. Concerned about the impact on children in families forced into poverty through funeral expenses, we have joined the Funeral Poverty Alliance. Read more here.

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